joe asked:


ok so i am a sophomore in college and i just took on baby sitting to make a little extra cash, and i have run into a few problems with the kids. They are aged 9 and 11, the 9 year old is really nice, respectful, and easy to take care of. On the other hand the 11 year old can be pretty rude, and he is not very nice to his younger brother. The mother wants me to take them places and the older 1 has a bad attitude no matter what we do, and often times will not listen to what i am saying. So i guess i just wants some tips on how to make him listen, and be a little more respectful. Thank you.